am an attached male in a sexless relationship.(means a LTR not married) I play alone. Yes she knows I am here looking, she has gone thru through the change,( yes older than me) and no longer interested is sex. ( it is too painful as she says) Looking for a Attached/ married lady who is in same situation, (Not getting needs/wants Met) ,they are 1st choice, am willing to be with a couple, we discuss what goes on first, is this comfussing to attached gals? no games or BS. I ask that you be real, I am, Auto replies mean BS to me, you can't take the time, means you don't have time for me, I do except an honest reply ( since standards may contact) so no excuses on why you don't. No reply means BS to me. DO not get offended or all butt hurt when I ask that a reply is requested. It means you are able to reply, paying and standard members. It means you are fake to me and pure BS, try reading first then reply. Be prepared for HONEST comments and replies,Do not get ass hurt when I reply with honest answers or replies. DO not take offense or consider rude or pushy, I am being honest that's all. Any persons or institutions using this site or any of its associated site for studies or projects, You do not have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum, both current or future. If you have if you have or done so, will be considered a serious violation of my pricacy and will be subject to legal action.

My Ideal Person: a gal attached preferred,I am willing to join a couple, we chat 1st on what he gets, women older than me get 1st choice, I do not play games or BS, it's about sex. I am an honest guy you be the same type of person

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
neil young

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
meeting a married lady for nsa no hold bar sex.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
not into celebs

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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