PROFILE UPDATED - 11/8/11 - We have received many emails asking if my wife and I have chosen a well endowed someone for her to have sex with yet. Thank you to all of you for your interest. The answer is still no. My wife is still very hesitant about trying the real thing. My wife continues to let me fuck her with the strap-on big dildo. She even will watch an occasional porn movie with me now and I always pick out something where the women are fucking a big cock. She always enjoys watching the porn and there is no doubt it turns her on, both from watching the porn and her letting me fuck her with the big dildo. However, she is just so reserved and conservative in her everyday life that moving to the next step is still a bit too much for her. I think, if the circumstances were right and we met some handsome guy at a bar and struck up a conversation and had a few drinks and she got loosened up and relaxed and it moved on from there...I think that it is a big possibility. But, as far as her saying, "I want to pick this guy and meet him here and I want him to fuck me with his big cock at a hotel"...she is not even close to that yet. Whenever I ask her (while not making love) if she would like to try something with a good lucking stud, she always says the same thing. Her reply is, "No, I am not like that. I am fine with you. You satisfy me just fine." Now that is totally different then the women I see in bed fucking the hell out of the big realistic 8" dildo I use, but for whatever reason that is where she is right now. Thank you to those of you who are friends with us and can remain patient. Hopefully, one day soon she will turn the corner and we will move to the next stage, but until then I am going to continue doing what I am doing and hoping that she will eventually change her mind. Of course there is always the chance of the stars all being aligned and some spur of the moment thing going down, like I mentioned earlier, but as of yet that has not happened.



We are a normal couple in our 40's who are thinking about experimenting with our sex life. My wife is a very sexy brunette with 34C natural breasts. We have children and my wife would qualify as a MILF!!! She is a definite head turner, on a scale of 1-10 she is a solid 7+ or 8. She is 5'4" tall and weighs about 125 lbs and is very athletic and toned. Neither of us have ever strayed from each other and she was a virgin when we met. I am a normal sized guy with an average sized cock of about 6" long and 4.5" around.

I read a couple of online stories several years back about married women having sex with well endowed men. Every time I read one of those stories I noticed I was getting very turned on. It didn't take long for me to begin to wonder and fantasize about what my sexy yet reserved wife would do if she was to one day be filled with a big cock, instead of my standard fare. So, I went out a few years ago years ago and bought a 8" long x 6" around soft dildo with a pair of big soft hanging balls at the end of the 8" shaft. I thought it would be hard for her to take as the fake cock looked huge in my hand and my wife has a tight pussy, but I figured I would try it anyway. I finally worked up the nerve to bring it out one night during foreplay and she was reluctant to let me use it and kept shutting me down every time I would bring it out. However, I was persistent and I kept bringing it out right after I would get her really turned on and ready to fuck so that it would be hard for her to turn down. Finally, one night she got turned on enough during foreplay that I was able to start the big head up and down her wet pussy slit and she didn't really seem to notice/mind or object. I slowly parted her lips with the head and began slowly pushing it in and out just an inch or two at a time. Before she could object I had worked about 6 inches of the 8 inch cock up into her pussy and to my surprise (and pleasure) she started bucking her hips like a crazy woman trying to take more of it into her pussy. She was eventually able to take all 8" of it "Balls Deep" after a bit of working, and I fucked her in and out with long deep strokes for quite a while. It was amazing to see her pussy stretching out to take the big cock. Her pussy lips were stretched around the dildo and they would cling to it each time it pulled out. She really started getting into it and all of a sudden she started bouncing her ass up and down and her big tits were flopping all over the place. She was in some kind of pre-orgasmic frenzy like I had never EVER seen before. When she finally reached her orgasm, she came harder, wetter, and longer than she ever had before. It was the most amazing sexual experience I have ever been a part of. What a difference a few inches makes.

I decided to take it to the next level, so a few years ago, I bought a strap-on Realistic 8" long dildo that was even thicker at about 6.5" around, it feels amazingly real. One night I put the dildo on the strap-on and after I got her turned on I fucked her with it. WOW, what a feeling. She wrapped her legs around me, grabbed my ass and pulled every last inch into her. She began thrusting her hips into me so hard that I thought I was going to hurt her. I continued to ride with her (and it was a ride) and fuck her, even though she was doing a lot of the work. After about 10 minutes of wild fucking she came so hard that her whole body started shaking, I thought she was going to pass out. Periodically I still make love to her with my natural 6" cock and she takes 2 to 3 times as long to cum and when she does finally cum it is no where near the same intensity as when she has the big dildo inside of her. In over 15 years of love making she had never ever had more than 1 orgasm with me, and believe me I tried everything. She is very sensitive after she cums and always has to stop right away. I basically had given up on the idea that she could have a multiple orgasm...that all changed the other night. While fucking her with the strap-on 8" dildo she came quickly after just 10 minutes of hard fucking and after a real intense orgasm she told me not to stop when I started to pull out. She said, "Wait, you don't have to stop, you can keep going...it feels good." I was in shock as usually she cums and she is done for the night. Not this time!!! She kept slowly gyrating her hips and pussy on the big cock. After a few minutes she started pushing her pussy harder into me and she started to take in more of the cock again. I was blown away, but I gave her what she wanted and I started pounding her with the big cock again and sure enough she had another orgasm about 15 minutes later. Just goes to show you how important size really is!!! Not only can it give a woman a more intense orgasm, but it also can help her to achieve her first multi-orgasm. She does not have multiple orgasms every time, they are still a rarity, but the fact that she has them at all now is amazing to me. Both her and I now realize that SIZE MATTERS!!! She's not really into talking dirty, but whenever I work her into a frenzy with the big dildo cock and she is close to an orgasm I know her true feelings will come out...so, I always ask her at right about that time if she likes getting fucked by a big cock, and she USUALLY moans, "YESSSSSSS, THIS BIG COCK FEELS SOOOO GOOD!!!"

We have been talking about taking the next step and trying the real thing. She is a bit reluctant and hesitant and says "No" whenever I bring it up, but I can tell by her eyes that she is interested. I am not sure when she will change her mind, but I think that she might eventually... All I know is that every time she gets her sex engine reved up and going and she feels that STRAP-ON big cock inside of her pussy she really loses control of herself and turns into a sexual animal like I never knew she could be...so I know she would love the real thing. I just need her to be willing to take the final step. This may take a while as it is the first time we have done any of this so please be patient.

My Ideal Person: A straight heterosexual male. Athletic, at least 5'10"+ and in good shape with well toned body and handsome face. The less body hair the better. MUST be trimmed or shaven and very clean around the cock and balls as she is not into a lot of pubic hair. She keeps her pussy nicely manicured and trimmed. My wife and I are both educated and professional. She has class and does not have any tattoos or piercings, she is your typical upper middle class soccer mom... We are looking for someone who is educated and has class as well... Sorry guys, if you are bi, under 5'10" or have a cock under 8" x 6" it probably won't work out. Again...you must be very well endowed with minimum of 8" long and 6" around. Before we ever proceeded to far I would want proof of the above. Also, preferable that you are able to give a good sensual massage to get the wife warmed up. You must be disease/drug free and CLEAN. You will have to wear a condom, this is non-negotiable. Thanks!!!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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