We are a dom/sub couple in a happy, open marriage, equally interested in the mental as well as the physical aspects of dominance and submission.

Since we don't live together, our current focus is to find that one special woman seeking a meaningful but non-exclusive relationship with a dominant man who can truly guide you to that elusive edge where mental desire overwhelms fear and inhibition and results in dynamic physical experiences. So if you are seeking a dom who can help you explore the deep dark recesses of your mind and turn your urges into real and intense experiences in a safe environment (boundaries are always honored), perhaps this is a unique friendship worth exploring further. While not required, if you might also appreciate the friendship -- which depending on his preference -- might be sexual or non sexual with another woman, all the better.

I came to this lifestyle late and only after meeting my husband. He is an experienced, smart and creative teacher who allowed me to discover so much more about myself and my natural urges....he engaged my mind as well as my body....providing the guidance and security and acceptance that allowed me to accept my inherent submissive nature. There was no need to beat me into submission or force me to my knees. His inherent confidence in who he is, his quiet, but natural dominance and his incredibly deviant mind provides all the motivation necessary for me to gladly take his collar around my neck, his shackles around my wrists....so if you like the cerebral aspects of sex as well as the physical, perhaps he can do the same for you.

We enjoy casual play but ideally we want something more than just a one-night stand....a truly unique friendship where our open marriage is accepted and honesty between everyone is a given.

We are a successful, well educated professional couple in the vanilla world....but also very real and genuine in our participation in these deviant arts. Into restraints dominance and submission in many forms but without a reliance on excessive pain or force.

Our pics are with our profile and are current

We are a down to earth, passionate, intelligent, secure and successful couple. We are open-minded, politically progressive, communicative partners and would love to find others who are interesting and fun to be around.

My Ideal Person: People, if you don't send or have a pic (face and bod) don't expect a reply. Now with that said, we are generally looking for people like us...clean, respectful, intelligent professionals who are laid back, communicative, honest and passionate, with healthy and vivid, dirty imaginations....no time for silly games or fakes, flakes or drama. We are very real and looking for the same. Oh, and one more thing....We both hate hair that gets in the way on men or women so shaved or very closely trimmed is appreciated.